I am an auntie!!

My brother and his wife just literally had their first child!! Woooohoo I am now an auntie!! It takes me back to when I had my little man. Gosh, it'll be 3 years in December. I cannot believe how much he has grown. I really do miss the baby days, but nothing is better then getting kisses and hugs and love from my little man now. Congrats!!

Why must we be so different?

To this day, at almost 30 years old, I still do not understand why men and women have to communicate so differently. Guys tend to close everyone out, whereas most women tend to talk to many people. At least me, lol. But I still cannot figure out why. And to top it off I do not understand how men seem to think that we are just okay with how they act when they need "time." They just completely shut everyone out without a mention of it. They jsut take their space and expect everyone to know what they are doing and why and be okay with no communication. Yeah, not cool guys. Communication is the biggest challenge between the sexes but seriously, if you just say hey, I need some time to myself, that's all it takes. Ugh, but no, that's common sense and lets face it, not a lot of people have that anymore. I just want a text, something, saying Hey, thanks for being there, I still just need to figure this crap out. Still like ya! Bam, easy right? Guess not :(

Who needs enemies when friends treat you worse?

There is nothing worse then when a friend treats you just as bad as an enemy would treat you, or worse, but they do it with a smile on their face and act like it is no big deal. I really do not understand why some people think that they can talk to their "friends" this way and not expect them to be hurt. I know I have very little to no tact when it comes to a lot of things. I am sure I have said things that have hurt people, but I've tried to change that, and when I was told it hurt, then I worked on that. For me, when I have said potential hurtful things, I knew it the moment it left my mouth that it could be bad. But, I am not sure everyone is like that.

A couple of times a friend of mine has made the comment, well look who his mother is, when referring to my son. How in the world would they ever think that that kind of comment wouldn't be mean or hurtful at all? Complaining that my son is being dramatic because um hello, you hurt him and hen saying, well look who his mother is, really? Just thinking about it makes me start to boil.

Further more, when you act like you are my child's mother, and take the liberty and yell at my child right in front of me, or act so offended or tired because he isn't doing what you want. He is 2 for heavens sake, what do you expect. I really thought I would get more respect now that I am a mother, but it seems quite the opposite. You are not a single mom, you have no idea what it is like for me. Even if you know other single parents, guess what? We are all different an to judge me for how I am with my child, makes me want to cry. Seriously, who needs enemies?